Privacy

The short version: if you only read this site, we do not know you were here in any way that could be tied back to you. There is no account, no tracking, no advertising and no analytics — not "anonymised" analytics, none.

This page describes what the site actually does today. When that changes, this page changes with it and the change is in the changelog.

What we store

If you are only reading:

If you have an account:

If you write to us: mail sent to an address at kink.ong is stored so a person can read and answer it — the sender, the subject and the plain-text body, capped at 16 KB. Attachments are counted and thrown away, never saved, and the HTML version of a message is discarded. Nothing here answers mail by itself; a person does, from their own mailbox.

Cookies

Three, none of them for tracking, none of them shared with anyone:

Cookie What it is for How long
kk_s your signed-in session 30 days, extended while you are using it
kk_c one passkey ceremony in progress minutes
kk_18 you have seen the 18+ notice before an outbound link a year

kk_18 holds the number 1. Not which tool, not when, not who. All three are HttpOnly and SameSite, so a script cannot read them and another site cannot make your browser send them.

Your light/dark choice and your skin are kept in your browser's own storage, not in a cookie. They never reach us.

What we do not do

Where your data goes

Almost nowhere. The site runs on one machine and stores everything in one database on it.

The keys for those services are encrypted at rest with a key that is not kept in the database, so a copy of our database is not a copy of our credentials.

The outbound 18+ page

A link to a tool that allows adult content goes through a short notice page first. That means the request log has a line saying the notice was shown for that tool, in the same rotated log as every other page view, not attached to you or to an account. Once you have agreed, kk_18 means you are not asked again, and the log line stops too.

How long we keep things

What you can ask for

Write to us and we will do it:

There is no form and no account setting for this, because there are so few accounts that a person doing it by hand is faster and more honest than a button that files a ticket.

Contact

Contact has the addresses. For anything about this page, say so in the subject.